The author's son this year 9 years old, although mind is bright, but mischievous also archness. Hope children will have a bright future I what the heart cuts see he does not put idea on study every time, enrage do not make one part, in him side side chatters days whole. However, even if I am worn-out mouth skin, the son still is persist one's old ways.
The child is extremely blundering, make mistake when face the child, most parent can take the step with me possibly: Light verbal reprimand, beat and scold again, but I discover, such educational means child is not accepted, because this generation is gone against,often still can turn over psychology.
Read the story that tells all right to educationist contented once, his practice makes me be inspired. In those days contented gentleman teachs in Yo scholarship school when, a girl inside the class wrote a punctuation less in exam problem, the result was buckled cent. After examination paper hair comes down, her on the sly put on punctuation, will look for contented gentleman to want cent. At that time although contented gentleman saw a problem from ink marks, but did not carry bright, satisfied the girl's requirement however. Nevertheless, he drew a red circle heavily on that punctuation. The girl understood the teacher's intention immediately, ashamed unceasingly. Old later, that girl already grow into useful timber, she finds contented gentleman to say: "Wherefrom after the thing, I just am determined diligent study, just be determined to do a honest person. " look of contented gentleman " silent " change a fault without cloggy child not only, promoted the child to be an upright person better instead!
Think of again from this, writer Mo Yan says a paragraph of word that pass. His daughter has prospect very much, somebody asks him: "Why can you teach piece so already outstanding the daughter that is thankful again? " he says: "Big love is reticent, silent also be a kind of education. a few less noisy and nag, the child may have the space that more reason ponders over instead; And teach by word of mouth of overweight of teaching by one's own example, in silent and breathed behavior, the child may be willing to learn and imitate parents' good life and working habit more. The child may be willing to learn and imitate parents' good life and working habit more..
I consulted educational personage technically later, he tells me, silent also be means of a kind of education really. Alleged " silent " , it is pedagogue inside proper time, silent to the child not language, with static apply the brake, the reason that lets the child rely on oneself goes the idea with conquer sensible blame, complete the transition of heart road course thereby, achieve expectant educational goal. A lot of example prove, silent there is distinct effect in domestic education, if the parent can be applied properly, can deliver to the child piece rich, inexpressible information, arrive since " get the better of soundlessly right now phonic " educational action.
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