As a competent parent, it is it is mature to give the child above all, termless love. One of requirement that every children health grows have to like him very much at least namely (her) person. This likes him (she) the person becomes a serious person. Have research proof, the children with welcome one's early years will be welcome all the time, and the children that suffers spurn and negligence changes undesirable experience and inactive human relations in society very hard. Next, with oneself paradigmatic action guides the child to be close to a book, nurturance reading is used to. According to considering to discover, philobiblic child its character trait is tenderness, goodness, optimistic, happy, humorous, self-confident, have sympathize with heart, vocabulary rich, human relationship is good, the performance on school work is better also. So parents besides want be good at giving systematic guidance, even earnestly practise what one advocates, include to kiss child read in all, so that let the child,build as early as possible read a habit.
Again, as competent parent, need the joy of proud child, do not want physical punishment child especially. If father matrix punishs the child, still think that is good for the child word, the child may suspect other all effort that care him. Chat with land of child equality, true city more, nonexistent the issue that cannot discuss completely with the child. Do not understand outfit understand, perhaps fool perfunctorily. And should guide the child self-consciously to discover a problem, and form oneself explanation. Let child nurturance understand the tendency with the explanation to the thing as a child.
Still have, help child learns to understand and control oneself affection; Know the need of other sensitively, notice the feeling of someone else; Know oneself are right the influence of others; Know someone else to may have different point of view; Ask for while should know give; Learn straight face to conflict and obtain in resolving conflict grow; Know the outcome that oneself act. Such children are become more likely respect getting a person and gay getting a person person.
American scholar wears Yi Si of dimension · Liu " 40 proposals that make good parent " it is the jewel that the parent and child joy get along and from him education gifted child acquires joy. Here excerptions as follows:
1, all questions that raise to the child, want patience and good land to make a reply.
The 2 serious problems that handle the child to put forward seriously and view.
3, put to display frame, the child is OK above the thing that shows oneself are made.
4, not because of child room in or on the desktop very random and blame, the creation activity that wants this and him only is concerned.
5, the one part of room of the person that give the child occasional of a room, basically offer his play.
6, explain to the child, his itself already very lovely, not need is in project oneself.
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