Just went up the admire admire of elementary school and child play game of a finger-guessing game, stone, shears, cloth. Want admire admire to win only, can continue to play. But if she was defeated, can make a noise to say " not count " , or it is to prevent others to win her. Other little girl is grouchy, run away in succession, do not wish to play with her again. The eye sees everybody runs away, each play each, admire admire runs to the side of mom, cannot help crying greatly say: "They do not play with me. "They do not play with me..
Actually, mom is early that one act that sees admire admire and child quarrel, know perfectly well be in the wrong overbearing is admire, but the look that sees baby daughter is sad and sad, it is very feel distressed. Mom does not know how to make proper response to admire admire really.
The age of admire admire is in ego to be central phase, her behavior also is understandable. The child is in the process of socialization, want to let herself fumble sometimes, want to guide to her sometimes, if both collocation is proper, the child can become health of body and mind, for the happy child that everybody accepts. Treat admire admire such child, want to have regular method.
Comfort moderately, tell invite an argument
When child be thwarted, be being comforted moderately is indispensable, answer to sympathize with what people does not play with her to experience first right now. After waiting for alleviation of her mood in a way to come down, invite her actively to play same game, and learn her a moment ago overbearing about, let her experience the mood of others, know why others does not think and she plays, tell her to abide by the importance of game regulation again, believe she will be recipient.
The act that understands oneself when the child is incorrect later, ask her, whether to wish intent child excuse, mix again their amuse oneself. If be willing, taking her to invite children cordially to play together. Hope from inside such process, can let the child learn to know a fault to change, reach get on well with other, those who respect others is important.
Examine colour watchs scene, specific and directive
Establish the concept that respects another person, it is the first pace that human concern grows. However, admire admire is handling the level that is a center with ego, allow him lord only, must not the action that others gains her, make her human relation be thwarted, if right now mom severity censures her, or to her Xiaoyi cardinal principles of righteousness, be afraid she cannot be accepted, or understand at all not.
If I am the mom of admire admire, I can search the setting that the opportunity observes to other child plays together. In the meantime, also let admire admire observing aside. After coming home discuss others carefully with admire admire friendly get along from time to tome what is regular but abide, accompany her to think back to how do oneself and others get along, after comparing, the means that coachs she chooses to suit will treat the person all round, believe her case can be improved slowly.
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