Let your child become an honest, kind, helpful, and thus welcomed by others who, for all parents, in addition to lead by example, with action to guide children in their daily lives, there are eight reasons must be taught to children.
Major principles 1: fair - the game follow the rules
Thorny problem: You and 5 year old son that scatter dice to see who is playing the first game to reach the finish line, but he did not press the point to go to his win, he suddenly put his villain the end. Although your mind is to let him win, but you do not want to be sure of his cheating.
Simple teaching: Do not use "cheat", "lie," accused the words children, but to tell the children to play the game should be fair, just, and to him that he should get the position. Truth can be in terms of: "This walk is unreasonable, unfair to others. And when I play so I can let you go, but when you play with other children, when you do go they will be very angry, because you Failure to comply with rules of the game. "or said to him:" You think, if nobody to play the game by the rules, then the results look like it? "
2 major principles: gratitude - Thank kindness of others
Thorny problem: you invite your friends to the house guest, a friend to your 4 year old son brought a gift. He looked at the open, and then put the gifts thrown aside, it did not say "thank you" turn on and play.
Simple teaching: expectations of four-year-old child is too early to know how to appreciate, your friends are likely to understand this. So do not fuss, simple truth made it clear on it. Told him: "You'll come here, I have to talk to you. Aunt gave you a gift, but you forget, she said 'Thank you' out."
If you are willing to let him play, and after repeat that truth is required. You can bring up the subject again before bed: "In our family, no matter who received the gift should say 'thank you'." If your son tells you he does not like this gift, then you should tell him: "Auntie thought you would like, why they gave you this gift. Moreover, even if we do not like a gift, but also to say 'Thank you', because we want to thank someone heart still misses us. "
3 major principles: to help others - to help others when needed
Thorny problem: After dinner, you make 6-year-old son to help you receive dishes. Tired, he said, refusing to help you with the housework.
Teach simple: First, ask your child first, do not move a chair, and then told him: "every member of the family are a force for the home, so home cleaner, more tidy. You now have a long big, can do something for this family. If you do not want to clear the table, then I make a list, write down what you can do the chores, then you choose what you want to do. "or said to him: "In helping others can make life easier for others. Do you remember my good toys to help you clean up your feelings when it? revenue recognition and your own feelings not the same toys. Now, can you help me ? "
4 major principles: understanding - forgive the faults of others
Thorny problem: When you were 5 year-old daughter hard to set the stage in a large house, it had been her 2-year-old cousin accidentally knocked over. Small tears in her eyes the face of apology cousin, your daughter are determined not to forgive him, but also loudly complained: "Too late!"
Teach simple: allow your daughter to forgive yourself before you vent anger heart, and then gave her made it clear reason. "You are very sad and angry, I would not blame you for this. I know you set the stage this house is very hard, not easy, but it was an accident. Your cousin is still small, he was not like you so carefully to do things. "If your daughter still think her cousin is a masterpiece of deliberately knocked over, then you let her recall sometimes they are not inadvertently mess up, like pour the milk on the table. However, if she really is deliberately knocked her cousin's house ride, then how to do it? Best to use his own experience to explain to children the benefits of understanding of others: "I remember, when I accepted the apology, I feel very good. You are willing to try it? You can convince yourself to forgive your cousin, See if you feel like? "
5 major principles: honesty - to tell you the truth
Thorny problem: the child's trouser pocket you found a new toy, but you know this is not his.
Your 6-year-old son argued that it is his own to find. You very suspicious, but did not get to the bottom. Then you got a son, friend mother, and she gently ask your child to play in his home yesterday, when a toy is not mistakenly took home.
Simple teaching: In this age, children clearly know other people's toys is wrong. So, you can tell them bluntly: "I just got so and so her mother on the phone. She said her family lost a toy, it sounds like you did not say to take away the toys. How do you think? It is you and me time to tell the truth. "
If your child is still a negative, then you are on some of the harsh: "steal anything that will hurt others. Children must upset. You may feel not good, because you know that the toys do not belong to you. Moreover, what you do still lie concealed, and this worse. "Finally, insisting that the toy the child has to go back as soon as possible.
6 major principles: respect - respect for others feel
Thorny problem: On weekends, you get 5-year-old daughter to go to language courses. Happened to read in class, hand yo daughter kept playing, completely ignoring the existence of the teacher.
Wise to teach: After class, you should bring her to the side, tell her your decision: after the weekends and then bring toys are not allowed. Then think of ways to make children "respect" the concept of deeper understanding. Can be said to her: "concerned about the others is that you respect him as an important way. You can use other methods to let your teacher know that you respect him?"
If your daughter quickly realized her mistake, then, in order to deepen her understanding of you said to her: "I'm glad you understand this is wrong, now you know how to do is to respect others This great. "
Truths 7: generous - willing to share with others
Thorny problem: When you were 3-year-old son was pleased to hold the pot she gave him candy. When you ask him to come together when your favorite chocolate candy, candy jar to hold him more tightly, his face and said firmly: "Do not Leave!"
Wise teachings: 3-year-olds are not good at sharing it with others, especially the candy, the more reluctant to someone else. So, you need to own personal experience to illustrate the benefits of generosity: "You know what? When I do not want to share with others, when in fact I feel the end is not good. However, I share with others, I it felt good, because I know I make people become very happy. Would you like to try it? see if it makes you feel happy? "lowering of standards or directly ask for candy:" Why not you eat candy and give us? If you do not want the piece of chocolate candy to me, then give me a piece of the other, how? "
Major principles 8: Friendly - Friendly people around them
Thorny problem: you do not intend to hear your 5 year-old daughter and her friends said a few students in her class, speaking the words is not nice.
Simple teaching: This behavior will often hurt others, so you must be directly involved in, but do not make their children into an embarrassing situation. You approached the children, tell them you overheard their conversation, and then propose a heuristic to their question: "Tell you a constant truth: that is how you treat others, how people will treat you. You understand what this means? "or simply ask them:" If someone in your class in the back when he was talking about you are ill, what would you feel? "
The inculcation of moral values, you need a subtle way.
Let children see their parents every day of integrity and decent behavior, to make their sermons to achieve the desired objectives.
Therefore, the life, subtle form of education is very important.
1, the parents lead by example. Used to say "please" and "thank you"; and sharing delicious; and children to join the kind of turn to play. Large number of such children, parents can let the children pick breakfast food for the family.
2, related to the child read a story book. Storytelling is a moral to learn more interesting way. Children like those with picture books, so many stories to children selected fables and fairy tales of the comic book terms, and then give him explain what the moral of the story.
3, educational and entertaining. Good moral standards of learning can also go into the game which, for example, and children playing puppet game, you can let the children how to think about this puppet the puppet can help it? The answer for the child, parents should be encouraged: "a good idea!" In addition, you can encourage children to express themselves through painting apology or truce sum desire. (Parents world)
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