Not only to accompany play chatting, but also to report regularly to the parents of the child's state of mind, such a tutor for junior
Foreign Languages Institute, Fujian Normal small Ling dumbfounding. Yesterday, the reporter interviewed Fuzhou University, Fujian Normal
Fan over the University College tutor, there are a lot of people find that they become "triple play", that is, tutoring, home economics,
undercover.
Collection of tuition and also pay "intelligence"
Ling started from a small summer village of Shanghai in Ms. Gao Taijiang belongings tutor, she was going to three days for a small number of
English language tuition heron three subjects.
When the first home instruction, look for an opportunity to small Lingla Ms. Gao to the side, to the mouth of a small set of Ling from her
daughter some information: What if her new acquaintance a friend, went to Internet cafes, etc. are the most important is to determine the
daughter whether
Puppy love.
More than 3 months, the small classes have to spend half an hour each time Ling and small heron chat, sometimes to the community with a small
heron. She became both friends talk about anything, the results of small heron gradually pick up.
A few days ago, a small house Ms. Gao Ling to make up classes for small heron, the hair look dull and small heron. Ling just about to take
her little forehead, and, behold, a small heron shed tears splashed down, and turn ran into the bathroom. Ms. Gao suspected daughter early
Love to find out followed by the small things she Ling report.
Subsequently, a small heron found in small Ling textbooks written repeatedly on a boy's name, the small Lu admits he liked the boys. "Which
side of the students who did not like, ah, a lot of positive love it!" Little Egret dumping there puppy love
To, but the small Ling Lu thought of themselves and the feelings of small fine, can not tell the truth Miss Xiang Gao.
It is small Lingjie Shao, Ms. Gao also had their own grievances, that this is really quite upset, and she hoped she and her small daughter,
Ling will become a bridge between. "But I'm caught in between the two sides, unlike a bridge, more like a spy." Ling said small
.
Reporters from several nearby colleges and universities learned tutoring center, tutoring students have encountered many similar requests.
Fujian Normal University College of Liberal Arts graduate in 2010, Xiao Zhao said that the long-term part-time tutor her parents gave her a
month
Pay 1800 yuan and the conditions of food, accommodation, hope she can stay and make up classes for children. Xiao Zhao said that parents also
want her to their children's every move, and even played the role of parents to guide children to learn the correct attitudes and
Concept of Love.
Experts advise parents to learn to trust their children
Psychological Services Center Director Li Ruilong sun that parents of such acts will only strengthen the defense between parent and child,
parents do not trust their children, the children will not mind to tell the parents, and parents, hostility, to hidden
Hiding things will be more and more. Parents should learn to share the child's emotions, rather than simply judge the child's right or wrong,
or attempt to "master" the child's growth; adolescence like the opposite sex is normal, parents should not be used
Tough measures to check the child's basic desire.
Lirui Long suggested that parents accept the child's First love, then with the children to share their story of the growth of adolescence,
for the child's trust, and slowly open their hearts to their children, teach children how to handle the growth of the last over
The process of trouble.