Which does present parent have not to hope his child will come can doesn't stand out, future have care? In nowadays the talent of so great pressure competes before, each parents worry in the future in what be the child. Perhaps you also had had the following ladies' similar experience.
Example one: Demanding " press hard on stares at a person "
Speak of the child, ms. Sun head a word is doubt: "How can they differ so greatly in one's childhood with us? I am not clear, teach the child now, how is the meeting so demanding? How is the meeting so demanding??
The son of Ms. Sun is read in a good middle school first 2, the word that uses Ms. Sun says, result is right still, in the upper reaches in the number in the class, say this should be a child that lets parent save worry normally, but Ms. Sun is busy explanation, be no good, this is " stare at " come out. How " stare at " ? Ms. Sun says, want not to work overtime only, to the child's homework, oneself are to look every day, rely on is worn oneself university knowledge base, can coach. The 9 becomes above fellow students in child class learn this to learn that, oneself also asked the family education of two classes to the child, english, him maths coachs some are critical, double cease day by go into battle of family education take turns. Talent competition is so intense now, superior bad discard, do not stare at some closer, travel?
Of Ms. Sun what stare at tactics closely to be brought to oneself is to do not have time to see an old person, did not have time and classmate party, shop, the child is very irritated also, the legal clause that can take out concerned teenager gravely to protect sometimes comes, criticise mom breaks the law, why does the old person also get angry to be in charge of the child so closely? But the child's achievement is rising however, be being stared at some more closely is medium upper reaches, be not being stared at is middle reaches. Ms. Sun says helplessly, what idea is there? Elementary school homework is little, do not discharge the place, not anxious still in those days, taking an examination of an university should see result, what idea is there?
Ms. Sun plaints, "We go to school in one's childhood, when to take an exam, the parent is very few bother about, how to take a child to take pain to so now? Material, energy is very demanding. Be every mom such? When can relaxed? Do you say? Waiting to attend a college! But see from newspaper, the university is good took an examination of, can be obtain employment difficult, allegedly graduate of 700 thousand undergraduate course cannot find the job this year, I had not considered this one condition really, still consider how to can be taken an examination of first attend a college. " ?
Example 2: The exhaustion on the scratch line
When communicating with salty lady in the evening, a paragraph of puerile musical instrument sound is passed brokenly from phone other one aspect of the matter, salty lady explains, she is coaching the daughter installs graceful experienced violin, this is her everyday the obligatory course in the evening.
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