Core clew

● undue protection often is just the opposite to what one wished, the nag is actual it is to disturb

● takes outline of the university entrance exam seriously, do not take hearsay misdirect child

● lets the child forcedly develop Tsinghua, the likelihood is connected the 2nd volunteer also do not take an examination of on

● parent's greatest help is the domestic environment that creates a warmth

"2 examine " ended, how to go answering the university entrance exam that is about to undertake? This is the focal problem that gets extensive candidate for an entrance examination and parent attention fully. Yesterday, " how does help child take an examination of an university " one book author, adviser of doctoral student of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, by accepted for " psychology of Chinese the university entrance exam studies the first person " the exclusive special report that Professor Wang Jicheng accepted our newspaper reporter. Professor Wang points out, shortly of the university entrance exam, examinee parent exists generally " expect undue protection, undue interference, overly, mental health of negligence teaching by one's own example, negligence " wait for an error, offer proposal of a lot of feasibility at this point.

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Examinee mother Liu Mou, before the university entrance exam a month asks for leave to the unit, heart and soul 24 hours serve for the son, ensure in final sprint level has been reviewed. In this one month, mother besides raise 3 food one day hardly the thing can work, go to son room turning easily then, this caused the child's suspicion and allergy however: Mom is to want to see me for certain reviewing a homework, is this to be me to serve to still be supervised? Such the son of Liu Nv person is constant wanting. He still says: "Serve not need for me actually such, have a meal problem myself can be solved. And, I face before taking an examination of two weeks to just have a holiday study by oneself in scheduled time, does mom shift to an earlier date why is a month in the home guard me? Mom's distrust can make achievement of my the university entrance exam glides 10 minutes at least. Mom's distrust can make achievement of my the university entrance exam glides 10 minutes at least..

Professor Wang points out, face before taking an examination of, a lot of parents are in charge of the child very closely, it is good to think this is for the child completely, but these are subjective,tentative idea and desire often not agree with with actual condition, did not help the child not only reasonable use time, can create child mood instead low, review loss of efficiency, cannot develop normally when the university entrance exam even. Crucial task of the parent or the learning environment that create a warmth to the child and domestic atmosphere, one's own wishful thinking is blind help, often can be just the opposite to what one wished.
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