● Zhejiang saves incoming letter of a father of golden China city to say: The son goes up this year first 2. I am military one's previous experience, to him as a child rigid surelysubject sb to discipline, stand by one's word, when hitting him, his Mom persuades trashy also, slowly his Mom also was not had a hand in. The child is afraid of me. He can hear the teacher's word in the school, but play game because of getting online of late, achievement drops. He is hit after he is afraid that I know, leave actually, it is to was in a park to ramble allegedly night. I love him, but he is afraid of me, how can you just become a good father excuse me?
● answers: You are a father that bear the blame, but you say no less than, still fail to become a good father. Child hour errs, because return not quite obvious reason, but know painful, hit him temporarily effective. But after the child enters adolescence, go against instead psychology is relatively intense, had mutinous capacity, if leave. So, cannot the method that reoccupy beats and scold. And should fall in the premise of understanding, understanding, communicate with the friend's manner and him, achieve educational result. Adolescent child is a lot of vexedder, want special patience to them, want to learn to await, want a few more good-tempered, the help wants a few more specific.
How to become a good father, the face introduces a few a few proposals that can consult to you below.
1. supports and respect the child's mother.
2. and wife composition teach the child's community, assume the job that teachs the child together.
3. smokes time and child to be together.
4. should behave the fatherly heart to the child.
5. cherishs his family.
6. smokes time and family to be together.
7. tells the child the thing about oneself.
8. becomes the child's friend hard.
9. makes the child's model.
10. becomes eligible father for the family.
11. believes he is capable to become active, the father that is full of love, also believe the child can cherish oneself are fatherly and the father that cares him.