" every parents can succeed " the child that told about an ordinary mother to hold pedagogic Li Shengzhen concurrently how to foster his and how will " problem child " educational adult story. This book says be educational child with its, be inferior to saying be educational parents.
This book passes true story elucidate a deep pedagogic fundamental: Education does not have recipe, if say to have recipe, that is a word: "Love " ; Education also does not have shortcut, if say to have shortcut, this shortcut is the road of love. Li Shengzhen takes over educational child, be thought to had been done not have for the most part " transform " likely, because they do not listen to the word of adult, bad good study, some has the invigorative disease, edge that perhaps stubborns and intractable to wander in crime even even. But, mr. Li Shengzhen accepted them, regard them as oneself child, meticulously ground is attentive caress. Place of teacher of plum of no less than says: Educational child, the most important is to want to regard the child as as equal as case of people on one's own side person look upon. This with respect to respecting the connotation with the most important education: Who is the child after all?
In actual life, many children by erroneously " fixed position " :
Some children are regarded as to be parents " inferior " , accordingly they must comply with all commands of parents, let read well well, must not speak carelessly chaos to move, the child became father and mother demesne belongings, can deal with casually. No matter be chill,still be doting, the metropolis is lifelong to their leave a legacy of trouble.
Some children are regarded as by parents " commerce is companionate " . Parents teachs the child to use corporeal stimulation completely to spread out, this time you took an examination of 100 minutes, my award 100 yuan of your money, fall to was not taken an examination of good, with respect to beat on the buttocks, this kind considers the intellective deformation development that often brings about children successfully only, make their character and morals cannot grow with intellective synchronism development.
Some children are parents " savings bank " , parents needs the child's good reason is to give future " kind " welfare, parents often admonishs children, "It is so good that we wait for you, how are you repaid in the future? " such parent thinks, the child was brought up to be able to give his brilliance lintel, raised in vain otherwise. Means of this kind of education also is substantially one kind trades is means of the property that imparity treats education even, the child that such education come out often very depressive, hard diastole individual character.
And some children reduce parents " give inflator " , it is the adult with a lot of insalubrious hearts even wanton humiliate, abreact, mistreated object, such child is the most miserable, they often body and mind suffers fully the person with so that cannot be become,destroy normal.
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